How to approach women the right way~
Its been awhile since my last post.. was busy being in love... *LOL* Just of the record.. I am in love with someone now~ lets just say i met my dream girl.. shes all that.. and i love her.. :) *getting all mushy now*
Anyways~ back on track.. Imagine this scene, where u saw this girl which greatly attracts you.. *This is quite normal as human is attracted to beautiful things..* And~ u do not know what to do.. Kept on looking at her.. but do not have the guts to approach her... heres some tips Which may or may not help u.. :p but it surely works for me.. *im not gona use it anymore tho, coz i have 'her' in my life now* To make things simple, i'll put it in sub headings~ :) this method only work if u can see and meet the girl constantly.. It doesnt rily work on a random girl on the street... try it~ hu knows it might work on u.. ;)
The right way to approach women:
Step number 1
It is very important to have the right intention, coz honestly if u have the wrong intention it will never work.. trust me~ Honest feelings~ thats the right words i was looking for.. :p
if ur just like sexually attracted to her, it wud be a different intention.. and its not good!!
Step number 2
Now your mind is set, It is important that u switch on your sense of attention.. be attentive~ look for details... look at her fingers, ring? no ring? u dont wana hit on someone's girl.. it'd be digging ur own grave.. :s and please dont stalk.. be casual..
Step number 3
Smile~~~ give her a friendly smile.. not the horny smile.. :s if she responds.. its a good sign.. if she doesnt.. maybe shes not interested or in a bad mood.. *i assume* if thats the case, no point in forcing that natural forces.. hehe! look for other girls..
Step number 4
Okay.. this is the important phase.. After giving that smile.. do it for few times.. if u pass by her.. give her a smile... after awhile.. This is the crucial part.. after a smile, say "helo" and node down ur head abit.. *show respect* im sure by now she wud reply back.. and this is a good start~ :)
Step number 5
Do the step number 4 for sometime.. And now, she knows you.. the guy dat says helo to her.. hehe! next step, find the right time.. its all about the timing.. the best scenario is when u pass by her.. Start with saying "halo" and followed by "i was wondering if i can somehow know your name?" she will reply and there you go~ approaching part is done... nice and smooth..
Step number 6
By now, u probably know her well now... take time to get to know her.. get d chance to hav a walk with her.. talk to her.. find d time.. when u feel comfortable with her.. den ask for her email add.. technology baby~ MSN chat!! hehe! have a good chat wif her.. wen d time comes.. u'll get her phone number.. and the rest is history~ ;)
Step number 7 *last step*
The important thing is to be yourself.. dont let the thing she likes changes you.. let her like you for who u are.. dats d whole point of being in a relationship right? accepting each other for who they really are.. ;)
Lastly, the steps i gave might or might not work.. but its worth giving it a shot.. be humble, have some confident in yourself.. and its okay to get hurt just not all the time laa~ cheers!!
Anyways~ back on track.. Imagine this scene, where u saw this girl which greatly attracts you.. *This is quite normal as human is attracted to beautiful things..* And~ u do not know what to do.. Kept on looking at her.. but do not have the guts to approach her... heres some tips Which may or may not help u.. :p but it surely works for me.. *im not gona use it anymore tho, coz i have 'her' in my life now* To make things simple, i'll put it in sub headings~ :) this method only work if u can see and meet the girl constantly.. It doesnt rily work on a random girl on the street... try it~ hu knows it might work on u.. ;)
The right way to approach women:
Step number 1
It is very important to have the right intention, coz honestly if u have the wrong intention it will never work.. trust me~ Honest feelings~ thats the right words i was looking for.. :p
if ur just like sexually attracted to her, it wud be a different intention.. and its not good!!
Step number 2
Now your mind is set, It is important that u switch on your sense of attention.. be attentive~ look for details... look at her fingers, ring? no ring? u dont wana hit on someone's girl.. it'd be digging ur own grave.. :s and please dont stalk.. be casual..
Step number 3
Smile~~~ give her a friendly smile.. not the horny smile.. :s if she responds.. its a good sign.. if she doesnt.. maybe shes not interested or in a bad mood.. *i assume* if thats the case, no point in forcing that natural forces.. hehe! look for other girls..
Step number 4
Okay.. this is the important phase.. After giving that smile.. do it for few times.. if u pass by her.. give her a smile... after awhile.. This is the crucial part.. after a smile, say "helo" and node down ur head abit.. *show respect* im sure by now she wud reply back.. and this is a good start~ :)
Step number 5
Do the step number 4 for sometime.. And now, she knows you.. the guy dat says helo to her.. hehe! next step, find the right time.. its all about the timing.. the best scenario is when u pass by her.. Start with saying "halo" and followed by "i was wondering if i can somehow know your name?" she will reply and there you go~ approaching part is done... nice and smooth..
Step number 6
By now, u probably know her well now... take time to get to know her.. get d chance to hav a walk with her.. talk to her.. find d time.. when u feel comfortable with her.. den ask for her email add.. technology baby~ MSN chat!! hehe! have a good chat wif her.. wen d time comes.. u'll get her phone number.. and the rest is history~ ;)
Step number 7 *last step*
The important thing is to be yourself.. dont let the thing she likes changes you.. let her like you for who u are.. dats d whole point of being in a relationship right? accepting each other for who they really are.. ;)
Lastly, the steps i gave might or might not work.. but its worth giving it a shot.. be humble, have some confident in yourself.. and its okay to get hurt just not all the time laa~ cheers!!
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